LIFE IS REALLY SIMPLE: BASE ON EXPERIENCE
Yeah right! Is life really simple. I mean I grew up hearing that life is hard and to survive you have to go the extra mile. How true is that? Well, can’t say that life is that difficult, even though my environment shaped my mindset to believe that. I later realized that it’s all false. We create the kind of life we want to live. So a lot of people have been clogged by the wrong mindset about life which is thereby bringing to reality their present life.
Like the quote; “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated”.
Sadly, I realized too late how life works. We allow ourselves to go through a lot of punishment because of our ignorance and mistakes. Life would have been easier if we don’t put too much pressure on ourselves and allow other people’s thought to validate who we are or what we do. In most cases, we procrastinate about the things we should do NOW. And right before our eyes someone else is at it so we lose it. Then we start to feel bad and blame others. What if, you had started that thing or pushed the voice of procrastination away just to do that thing you’ve always wanted to do?. You would have at least gotten closer to your destination.
We worry too much over the thing we can’t control and we start to blame ourselves and beat up ourselves for failing. Really! Think about this, what has worrying changed so far? Has it answered or solved the question or even provided a solution? No. Worrying only keeps you down and depressed. When you worry less and direct that same emotion on a possible solution then you focus on it, you get a better result or something close. We also hold on to past regrets and failures.
SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR PAST LIFE
Can you let go already? Leave the past where it belongs and move on with your life. You have better days ahead of you and you don’t want to miss a good and peaceful life because of your past experiences that aren’t so pleasant. What about knowing this, your past doesn’t define who you are; it only brings you closer to your designed destination. You failed so you can learn not to fail again.
Making the wrong money and relationship choice is one key object that makes life either easy or difficult. Someone without money feels less privileged when you try to get something you want so badly and you cannot afford it. The same thing happens when you have the wrong circle of friends. Your relationship with people (friends) should have a positive influence on you. Don’t hang out with people who only water down your progress or suggestion, be with people who will encourage you to grow and succeed. Let go of negative talkers or people who don’t value you because it will have a long time psychological effect on you. Manage your money properly, invest and save for rainy days so you don’t have to be broke or feel sad that you don’t have cash.
If we learn the little things we commonize, then life wouldn’t be so difficult. A happy life is a planned life. Plan your life properly and forgive does who hurt you so you can be free and happy. Then be grateful for everything that way, you’ll realize how beautiful life is…
Also read this: Be You To The Full
We can make the best out of our existence if we truly focus on the right things. And let go of the past that has kept you in servitude.